How An Innocent Compliment Led To A Radical Rethink

I’m sure he didn’t mean it. Indeed, what he said about me was couched in flattering language, in a flattering post on blogs to watch in 2011. Except that I didn’t recognise myself in the description. “A career coach.” Not that there’s anything wrong with being a career coach. But I’m not one. At least…

How To Swing An Internal Job Move When Your Boss Really Wants You To Stay Put

Hats off to you. You’ve managed to hold on to your job through countless rounds of redundancies and reorganisations. And what you’re doing has become so much more mission critical to your boss as a result. But you’ve got other ideas. As relieved and flattered as you are, you just don’t want to keep doing…

5 Warning Signs That You’re Accepting The Wrong Job (And How Not To)

It’s tempting. That call out of the blue seems to promise so much. Just the kind of thing you’ve been dreaming of. Prestigious company for someone in your profession. Signs that they’re going places and could take you with them. It’s like the unexpected date after months of romantic drought. And you’re feeling pretty proud…

What I Learned From My First HR Manager Job (And How I Still Use It Today)

My friend Peter Hros said to me, “it’ll be therapeutic”, and he was right. I suppose some people get enticed into writing by the thought of whomever will read their work. In my case, the prospect of learning something new about myself was appealing enough to accept Peter’s invitation to guest post for him. Today,…

El Edwards Talks Purpose And Meaning

Mondays aren’t always such fun. But I was privileged to spend an hour or so of mine today with El Edwards, interviewing her as part of my occasional series on purpose and meaning. If you haven’t met El, she’s the woman behind the site Truth Passion Joy. She’s a writer & digital strategist on a…

Tired Of Thinking Like An Ugly Sister? Step Into Your Cinderella Slippers and Rock!

It’s epidemic. Smart, talented people, out of touch with how capable they are. Waiting for some fairy godmother to come along and make it okay for them to wear the coveted crystal slippers. You know how it is. The boss you want to endorse you. The client you want to adulate you. The community you…

Hero Or Failure: You Decide

Last Friday I was writing about working on purpose. And over the weekend, I was asking myself what makes the difference between times when I am really able to do that versus those when I’m not. I got to figuring that it all came down to what I was telling myself about the likely outcome…

How Safe Is It To Work On Purpose In a Dodgy Economy?

Purpose. That’s a word that some New-Agers have cannibalised to the point where I often want to disown it. That is, until I’m talking to people who are trying to grapple with it because they’ve got to the inescapable point in their lives of wanting purpose to be what drives them, and finding themselves struggling…

How To Re-Engage With Your Job (Even When You’d Really Rather Not)

You didn’t imagine you’d be sat there much longer. But the uncertainties in the marketplace are making your job search or longed for promotion take more time than you’d hoped. One of the most soul-destroying things is turning up for a job every day when you outgrew it some time ago, but need to stick…

Simply Grateful

This isn’t the post I thought I’d publish today. That was something about the Zen of the 9-5, and keeping your head when all around are losing theirs. Driving back from my morning coffee ritual, I was hatching the story line, stopping from time to time to take happy eyefuls of verges lined with golden…