Social Media. Another 24/7 Work Culture?

This is a question that’s been on my mind for a couple of weeks now.

Especially since a few uncharacteristic mistakes in my client work brought into focus how much time I was spending online and how tired it was beginning to make me feel. Not good for one whose raison d’être is about living a whole life of which work is part, but not all. And whose coaching differential is strong energetic presence.

There’s much to love about blogging, Twitter, Facebook and all things social media. It’s such a “now” phenomenon. It opens you and your business up to people, information, products and services you simply would not otherwise access. And for the solopreneur, it’s a way of creating your virtual office of self-selected colleagues.

But if you imagine you’re swapping a 24/7 environment for one that’s less so, think again. It’s entirely possible that, without the kind of self-monitoring I did recently, you might recreate virtually what you’re leaving behind.

Here are 4 key characteristics of 24/7 corporate cultures. See whether any of them are playing out in your social media driven business world.

Focus on external performance measures

Most workaholic organisation cultures have performance management ethics that reward the achievement of “things”. Sales targets; fee revenues; customer satisfaction statistics: these are all valued beyond how they are actually achieved or what impact achieving them has on people.

The locus of control for such measures is often outside of you. You wait for others to confer their approval. Your sense of yourself is predicated on how well you meet their and your own arbitrary measures. You feel in control and powerful when the numbers are good. Bad when they’re down.

Using social media to fuel your business can suck you into this kind of thinking too. Your sense of yourself becomes based on blog traffic, how many subscribers or Twitter followers you have, how many posts you can knock-out.

Sure, measures have their place in focusing and building your business, but it’s about balance. Give yourself psychological swing space by reframing your success measures and remember that you are responsible for determining how well you’re doing.

Fuzzy boundaries between work and life

It’s great to make friends at work. However, 24/7 organisation cultures often confuse collegiality with more intimate relationships. Social contagion has the effect of having you hang around the office for longer than you might because you enjoy the chumminess.

An extreme example was when I worked for Gemini Consulting. They openly spoke of “The Gemini Family” and indeed in our consulting teams we both worked and lived together on locations across the world. We saw more of one another than our partners, children, or long-term friends. When a “family” disbanded at the end of one assignment, another would spawn during the set-up of another.

You can make real and enduring friends via social media. I am delighted to have a sense of belonging to a number of different online communities. But don’t make Twitter and Facebook “home”. Discipline yourself to take time away from your pc or Mac to do offline things, and to give due attention to those closest to you. That way you can keep a healthy harmony in your different relationships.

Excessive workloads

Another enduring aspect of full-on organisational cultures is that what they expect staff to deliver is not often achievable within the confines of a contained working day. Hence people find themselves working into evenings and weekends – through the night – just to keep up.

Accordingly, when we begin working for ourselves and using social media, the chances are that we’ll set our own workloads in a similarly burdensome way.

It’s a tough one because, when you’re starting up or changing direction, you often want to put in more hours in order to build your platform and get established. The thing is to do this knowingly, and also to decide for yourself when you will be quieter.

Hook for obsessives and perfectionists

The truth is, of course, that 24/7 organisation cultures wouldn’t exist if they weren’t staffed by the kind of people who perpetuate them.

Obsessives and perfectionists can be the most successful people in our society. Their vision, drive and commitment to excellence pushes them to achieve things that Joe Bloggs just wouldn’t attempt. But taken to extremes, such behaviour can be punishing, primarily of themselves.

In the social media work culture too, you can get so mesmerised by the endless possibilities that, day after day, you push yourself to do more and more. But if it’s not supported by appropriate rest and revitalisation, that passion isn’t limitless and can burn out.

As I was starting to get a taste of a few weeks ago.

I’d really love to hear what you make of this. In what ways can you get caught up in the enthusiasm of social media? How do you draw the line for yourself and enjoy the best of social media?

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23 Responses to Social Media. Another 24/7 Work Culture?
  1. Jen Smith
    May 10, 2010 | 1:50 pm

    This is something I have been thinking about this weekend Christine.

    Mike at mikeslife.org had a discussion on Saturday about whether he should set some definate working hours. I have found since taking a step back and doing that myself, I am much more balanced and I am having that work life balance again that I always strive for.

    Social Media doesn’t seem like work a lot of the time which is why it’s so hard to see when it’s taking over. I suspect it’s similar for many people but at the end of the day it’s good to reevaluate the way we are spending our time on a regular basis to make sure we are living in accordance with our values. Otherwise, as you say we are swapping one job for another! :)

    Jen

    • Christine
      May 10, 2010 | 2:01 pm

      Thanks for your insightful comment, Jen.

      I didn’t see mikeslife.org over the weekend, but I’ll check it out. Still, it’s always funny how there are often trends in blog post topics!

      What you say about social media not feeling like work is spot-on. I do think that’s part of the challenge. It’s very exciting and there are always more blogs to read, more comments to write, more interesting people to hang out with. The buzz of it all has us coming back for more and more. Hard to see, then, that this buzz can also have an addictive underbelly.

      I like your suggestion for regularly reevaluating that how we are spending our time is in line with our priorities.

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  3. Kate Bacon
    Twitter:
    May 10, 2010 | 2:30 pm

    Oh my, you hit a nerve with this post Christine! Lately I’ve been feeling I’m always trying to “catch up” on Twitter and a sense of competition rather than collaboration has taken over…eeeek!
    .-= Kate Bacon´s last blog ..It’s the WHY that matters… =-.

    • Christine
      May 10, 2010 | 2:38 pm

      How interesting, Kate!

      I suspect that’s the nature of the beast….

  4. Ann
    Twitter:
    May 10, 2010 | 2:42 pm

    Christine:
    You have written a wonderful article that is very important for those in the social media world to read. We do need to set boundaries or, as you suggest, our lives can be consumed without us realizing it. Yesterday, Mother’s Day, was the first day when I did not write anything on my site for quite a while. Life can get out of balance and I think that you and Jen are correct in stepping back and taking a survey of your life situation and make certain that you engage in other pleasantries aside from work:). If not we start to expect too much from ourselves and what we can produce on the web. Not good. Not good at all. Unrealistic expectations become our reality. Such reality gives me a lot to write about at http://www.stress-management-4-women.com. Thanks again for bringing the 24/7 cycle to our attention Christine!

    • Christine
      May 10, 2010 | 2:53 pm

      Thanks, Ann

      When I stepped back to think about it, it seemed so incongruous that I am such a proponent for a whole life on the one hand, and yet had for a little while got sucked into doing more work than was really healthy for me. The thing is the internet has no boundaries. Perhaps in a job there’s at least some sense of time passing because of contracts or other people coming and going. But social media is always “on”. As we learn to get the best of it, it’s in our interests not always to be “on” too.

      Good to have your contribution here!

  5. Eric
    Twitter:
    May 10, 2010 | 3:21 pm

    A good way I look at doing things is using social media as I do my email. Or rather, both in the same. I get in the game periodically at times and do my thing and catch up when I go back in at another time.

    Basically, I have my own set of rules that I follow and don’t let the media catch me off guard.
    .-= Eric´s last blog ..Why You Should Be Your Blog =-.

    • Christine
      May 10, 2010 | 5:12 pm

      Hi Eric

      I like the discipline inherent in your approach. The key takeaway from what you’re saying is that YOU set the rules on what time you’re spending online and don’t let yourself get sucked in.

      Thanks for sharing.

  6. Heather Villa
    Twitter:
    May 10, 2010 | 5:27 pm

    Christine,
    Great topic! It is kind of scary how we live in a world where everyone wants some degree of instant gratification – no wonder every diet pill or elixir that comes along sells like crazy and in the long run fails. In our society there is NO instant gratification, or is there? Well social media is a sort of it, isn’t it? Where else can you make a comment, share a picture, pitch an idea, and so on and at any given moment in time know that there are people reading or viewing it? These people will then provide you the feedback you desire…the instant gratification?

    I really believe that “I.G.” is natural and something that all people desire (even if they say they don’t) but there is a level above it – when you MUST have feedback. It goes deeper than it should – it can be an addiction.

    So how do I draw the line? Well I am a person who has lots going on at all times. But I always make time for ME. Without that then everything will collapse around me. What good would I be if I was burning the candle at both ends running my businesses and coaching others etc? It can be one of those things where you don’t think there may be a problem unless someone points it out to you. Like, “Hey! Can’t we just go out and you don’t 4square for 5 hours?” =)

    Again – great topic!!!!
    .-= Heather Villa´s last blog ..6 Lessons that Moving Can Remind Us about Business =-.

    • Christine
      May 10, 2010 | 6:26 pm

      Terrific comment, Heather. You make a great point about instant gratification.

      I agree with you that we all need a certain amount of feedback. It endorses who we are and helps us integrate a sense of our okayness. Like you, however, I think that it’s when that need goes deeper that we run into problems.

      It’s good that you make sure to have ME time. The point you make about what good would you be if you were burning the candle at both ends is really pertinent. People like you and me ARE our businesses!! And we need to make sure that we don’t imagine our passion and energy are limitless.

  7. Joshua Black | The Underdog Millionaire
    Twitter:
    May 10, 2010 | 6:14 pm

    There is a huge issue with becoming obsessed with social media, email, and blog posts for your business. Where it might seem that you are operating on an “instant gratification” level to your customers, what happens when you grow?

    Will you be able to anwser that random email in the middle of the night?

    Are you really going to have time to answer all of the Facebook comment business?

    Instead, train your customers from the beginning. It’s important to make sure that they understand howy ou operate your business and the schedule in which you will get back to them.

    Too much social media can be addicting, a waste of time, and will eventually harm your business if not kept in check with grass-roots marketing as well.

    -Joshua Black
    The Underdog Millionaire
    .-= Joshua Black | The Underdog Millionaire´s last blog ..5 Tips for Closing the Sale Without Beating Your Customer With a Hammer =-.

    • Christine
      May 10, 2010 | 6:30 pm

      You make a great point, Joshua, about how, if you’re working on an instant gratification level, you’ll cope when you grow; setting expectations from the beginning.

      I like the attitude that too much social media can be a waste of time and indeed keep you away from some of the basics of your business.

      Thanks for coming by!

  8. ayo
    May 10, 2010 | 10:58 pm

    hi christine,
    how are you? i used to worry about my lack of social media skills but i’m beginning to give my lazines with social media second thoughts.
    first of all i own up i’m not good at it(i could abandon twitter, facebook, stumbleupon, digg for days and possibly months). i have also wanted to do more but my plate is always full and i dont want to choke.i chew slowly and when i’m full, i stop eating. a few weeks ago i read articles similar to yours on social media from 6 bloggers
    i think setting definite hours as mike suggested, reasonable targets and reading a few blogs which add value and are specific to your niche may be one way forward.
    i better stop rambling lol!!!
    take care and enjoy the rest of the day
    .-= ayo´s last blog ..The Fourth Edition Of The Life Skills Magazine Is Out Now!!! =-.

    • Christine
      May 11, 2010 | 8:31 am

      Thanks for sharing Ayo.

      It’s interesting that part of us feels as bloggers that we “have to” do all the other social media stuff too. Yes, it helps promote us. But it’s also hugely time and energy sapping.

      If your approach to SM of eating just what you can stomach works for you, I’m inclined to say stick with it!

      Thanks again, Ayo, and have a good Tuesday!

  9. Ali Davies
    Twitter:
    May 11, 2010 | 9:50 am

    Hi Christine, your post reminded me of something my very first coach said to me back in 2001 just after I had left the Corporate world – “Be careful you are not re-creating what you are trying to escape” It is something that has always stuck with me as we do tend to take established habits into new stuff unless we are intentional about how things will be.

    • Christine
      May 11, 2010 | 12:53 pm

      These are wise words, Ali. Your coach was pretty insightful.

      I think that in “escaping” we’re just as often trying to shake off something uncomfortable about ourselves as we are an outer reality. Unless that inner challenge is addressed we’ll repeat it wherever.

  10. Eleanor Edwards
    Twitter:
    May 11, 2010 | 10:48 pm

    I agree with all that you guys have talked about. We do need to be aware of how much time we spend doing online type stuff. Relationships with family and close friends must take priority.

    However, I find myself in something of a different set of circumstances. Whilst I agree that the whole writing/reading/commenting cycle can all too easily be like the one eyed monster that never has enough to eat, I personally talk to people on Twitter and Facebook in the same way that I interact with my friends offline.

    Maybe it’s a perk of being involved with a charity but neither Twitter nor FB is my work. Twitter is my playground on a Saturday afternoon when my husband is working yet another long shift. Facebook is my sand pit when he phones to say that he has to work on.

    When I chat with people on either platforms, I am talking to my friends. I’ll be even more honest about this by saying that talking to my friends on Twitter and FB relives my loneliness. Whilst I invariably check my @ feed before heading to bed, the evenings when I have grown up company, you’ll find me quiet on Twitter. However, he does work some truly unbelievably weird shifts and having a network of friends online is my way to cope with that.

    Maybe I’m just the sad geek who likes to talk too much but c’est la vie ;)
    .-= Eleanor Edwards´s last blog ..Thankless Tasks: Looking for a button in a car park =-.

    • Christine
      May 13, 2010 | 1:14 pm

      Great, provocative comment Eleanor!

      Different people use social media in different ways. One of its huge advantages is that work and play is a spectrum and not a divide in the online world. I think if you’re doing what you love online it can be thrilling. That’s certainly my own experience!

      And like I said in the post, “You can make real and enduring friends via social media”. I consider you and other people with whom I connect to be my friends. No question.

      What I’m challenging is when 24/7 cultures of any kind including SM draw us into doing things unconsciously. There’s a fine line between being enthusiastically engaged in what we’re doing versus feeling compelled or driven to do it. To my mind one is healthy and allows us to thrive. The other is to our detriment.

      I suppose I’m inviting those of us who work in this exciting new medium to keep reviewing with ourselves that what we do, we do from a place of healthy choice!

      Thanks again.

      • Eleanor Edwards
        Twitter:
        May 13, 2010 | 1:26 pm

        I wasn’t trying to be provocative Christine, just honest about my need for grown-up conversation and how Twitter fills that void.

        I agree with all that you wrote about the need for boundaries etc. I don’t tweet anything like as much when my husband is home. In fact, my iPhone drives him insane if he sees it too often ;)

        But there are times when I am lonely and I know that if I tell my little online world that I need someone to talk to, it very kindly obliges :)
        .-= Eleanor Edwards´s last blog ..Dr Egg reveals all for Give a Brick =-.

        • Christine
          May 13, 2010 | 1:47 pm

          I’m glad it does, Eleanor, and I’m glad to be part of your little online world! :)

          • Eleanor Edwards
            Twitter:
            May 13, 2010 | 1:53 pm

            Thanks Christine :) Same back at you ;) (Sorry I came across as provocative though. That genuinely wasn’t my intention)

          • Christine
            May 13, 2010 | 5:13 pm

            No apology required, El. Even if you had intended to be provocative, that would have been OK with me! I do enjoy a bit of spirited conversation, especially with people I like :)

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