3 lessons on work and life from walking 10 miles in the snow

IMG_0019 Even if you live outside the UK you cannot have missed us Brits Twittering on about the clobbering our little island took recently from the snow. It’s been a bit of a shock to city-turned-country girl here to wake up to the fact that outside of London snow is not some slushy thing that lasts five minutes.

It was kind of fun for a couple of days. So long as it melted quickly and let us all get back to life as usual. Except, it didn’t. And my food supplies started to dwindle. Well, I don’t know about you, but I’ve never been one for hunger at the best of times and the prospect of having it imposed on me was pretty scary.

So, last Friday, Steve and I decided to put on our winter walking gear, take a couple of backpacks, and walk five miles to our nearest Tesco. I set off resenting the shit out of it. But it turned out to be a magical experience and I wanted to share my reflections with you.

What you imagine is not what IS

Countryside around Ford village Decembe 2009About five minutes into the walk and warming up in all my layers, I began to enjoy the crunch of thick snow under my feet. We began to see spectacular wildlife sights: red kites circling around some prey, a sparrow hawk hovering over its, rabbits scrabbling through the snow for sodden grass, fox trails weaving their way into the distance, tiny field mice scuttling around in the snowy bracken, partridges rushing away from their hedgy hiding holes.

It made me think about how often I put off a big task, thinking I’m going to hate it, only to find that, when I’m in it, I’m absorbed and loving it. There was a real lesson for me here in being present and allowing that to inform my experience.

At tough points: dig in and push through

About forty five minutes in it started snowing. Heavily. We kept walking for a minute or two before stopping and asking ourselves, “should we turn back?” Part of me really wanted to. But by that stage my appetite for the challenge had been engaged and I began to wonder how it might be to keep going.

“Let’s take the risk and keep walking,” I eventually said. And so we did.

For about twenty minutes in the midst of a blizzard, I felt like we were in no-man’s land and had completely lost the plot. But the snow eventually eased off, leaving us no worse for wear, and we made it to Tesco in just over an hour and forty minutes.

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And I wondered how often in life and work, we avoid a challenge at the first sign of difficulty. I must admit that I drew the parallel between this experience and where I am in my blogging journey: sufficiently well into it, but with miles to go. I have vision of what I want to do, but can sometimes see the terrain as difficult. Can I push through in order to achieve what I want? Amazingly, life gave me an answer to my question.

See things through to the end

Ten minutes from home a 4×4 passed us and its driver offered us a lift. We thanked him for his generosity, but by that point we were so close to doing what we’d imagined was impossible that, without even conferring, we knew that we had to finish the journey under our own steam. The sense of achievement was immense. I rewarded myself by sitting in a hot bath for half an hour and then making some fabulous food.

It’s all too easy, in my experience, to see the finishing post ahead and to cop out without making it through the tape. Getting home that day made me understand how important it is to see something right through, and to take the satisfaction and pleasure that comes from an ending.

Who’d have thought the snow could have held such gifts?! Have you had any similar experiences, snowy or not, you can share?

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21 Responses to 3 lessons on work and life from walking 10 miles in the snow
  1. Bobby Livingston
    January 22, 2010 | 2:01 pm

    Hi Christine,

    I like your tale of yomping for food through the snow and the message it delivers: good things take time. I’m enjoying teaching after-school rugby to the kids at Langside Primary School P5s. Yesterday was simply brilliant: after lots of practice, including ball handling and learning the basics of touch rugby, the kids “ignited” and the session was the best yet by far! There is no substitute for hard work – success rarely comes by itself. Keep up the brilliant commentary at ADKOW.

    • Christine
      January 23, 2010 | 8:54 am

      Thank you, Bobby!

      Glad to hear about your touch rugby story. If I’ve understood you, by learning the basics, the children’s confidence and interest in the game was engaged and led to a great experience? It’s amazing how that happens, isn’t it?

      “Success rarely comes by itself”: I hadn’t particularly pulled that out as a learning from my own experience, but indeed it was there.

  2. Ben
    January 23, 2010 | 8:52 am

    I think you’re right Christine, I think we all face that challenge of turning back at the first sign of the blizzard in life and many of us decide to turn back.

    Great analogy :)

    • Christine
      January 23, 2010 | 8:59 am

      Thanks, Ben :) It was so tempting then to turn back – I knew that it’d be relatively easy to get back to the comfort of home. I think in life we often choose the comfortable over the thing that’s going to shake us up a bit. Meantime, it’s doing the latter that allows change and success in life.

      Take care.

  3. Ben
    January 23, 2010 | 9:17 am

    It’s about stepping out of your comfort zone isn’t it.

    • Christine
      January 23, 2010 | 12:58 pm

      That’s it in a nutshell, Ben! Nicely summarised.

  4. Friar
    January 23, 2010 | 11:47 pm

    A snow fall.

    Good Lord.

    How would you people survive in Canada? :-D

    • Christine
      January 24, 2010 | 10:21 am

      LOL!!

      Quite simple. We wouldn’t!! D

  5. Jen
    January 25, 2010 | 10:26 am

    Great post! It’s funny what we learn from adversity isn’t it? :) Sounds like a great experience in the end.

    • Christine
      January 25, 2010 | 11:02 am

      It was a great experience in the end. I’d go so far as to say I loved it!

  6. Mandy Lehto
    Twitter: mandylehto
    January 26, 2010 | 5:41 pm

    This post made me smile. You took a ‘different kind of walk’ and received some very interesting revelations to issues you’d be mulling over. What a great reminder that can benefit all of us. Being busy, urban and intellectual, we sometimes override other kinds of information and messages that might break an impasse we’re at. So often, when I’ve been marinading on something, I just throw up the question to the Universe, to life, to whatever forces exist out there. And then something happens. When your receptors are opened and you think outside the box, clues and bits of information come from the most interesting places. If we’re closed to that, we walk on by none the wiser, still caught in the log-jam. Thanks for the reminder!

    • Christine
      January 27, 2010 | 11:04 am

      Being open to the experience is definitely key. As you say, when we’re busy we can get so caught up in things that we override other information. It’s good to know that it’s always there if we’re willing to listen!

  7. Scot Herrick
    Twitter: CubeRules
    January 29, 2010 | 4:01 pm

    My wife and I just moved from a place that rarely gets snow to one that always gets snow. In fact, the day the moving van showed up with our furniture, it started snowing and we had the worst snow storm here (19-inches; 48-cm) in 30-years.

    Now, it is like “normal.” Layers. Waterproof boots. Gloves. Take five more minutes to get somewhere because you have more to do to get ready.

    But the blue sky, reflecting from the snow, is stunning. The sunsets are brilliant.

    You won’t see that, though, unless you try. Plus, prepare. Life with snow is a bit tougher here, but that builds character and a “can-do” attitude. It’s what you discovered, Christine, walking through the snow.

    A great article. Thanks for writing it.

    • Christine
      January 29, 2010 | 4:09 pm

      What a beautiful comment, Scot. It has touched my heart this afternoon.

      It’s amazing that you’ve had a not dissimilar experience to me and experienced not dissimilar benefits. Although we live on different sides of the Atlantic, it’s lovely to feel I’ve shared this with you.

      Thanks for reading!

  8. Eric
    Twitter: bluepop13
    March 1, 2010 | 4:48 pm

    Wow can I relate to this one!

    You mentioned, “It made me think about how often I put off a big task, thinking I’m going to hate it, only to find that, when I’m in it, I’m absorbed and loving it.”

    This is exactly what my problem is half the time. I think I’m going to hate it but once I’m actually doing it or “in there” I find I love it. I guess that comes from just fear of the unknown or what could be or could happen and once it is happening I realise it’s just not so bad.

    Great article.

    Last here is I had a challenge to get my car unstuck and wanted to get it out and did so with the help of some people as well as working on it for three days in a row… I was damn determined! lol

    Read more about it this Wednesday on my blog.
    Eric´s last blog ..Lets Help Each Other: Monthly Experience (January – February) My ComLuv Profile

    • Christine
      March 1, 2010 | 6:08 pm

      Three days? Wow, that definitely is damn determined! LOL!!! I’m intrigued now to read your post on Wednesday :)

      Glad this resonated with you, though I too am not sure why we do that. My fantasy is that, as well as fear, there’s an element of memory of boring or difficult things playing out inappropriately from the past. Whatever, it’s incredible how the sooner we just get on with it, the sooner we have a different experience!

      Thanks for dropping by again and enjoy the rest of your day.

  9. Eric
    Twitter: bluepop13
    March 4, 2010 | 12:50 am

    Yes I’m not sure why we feel the way we do when it comes to things like this. It’s like we’re pushing ourselves to NOT do something we actually KNOW we’re going to like.

    It’s almost as if our likes are actually our dislikes and our dislikes are actually our likes. Makes no sense to me but it’s what seems to be.
    Eric´s last blog ..Build Your Blog With Fire In Mind My ComLuv Profile

    • Christine
      March 5, 2010 | 4:08 pm
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